Thanx Peanut .He's gorgeous
He can be a twat at times though but he is the best dog I could have wished for.
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Thanx Peanut .He's gorgeous
No he hasn’t he has been amazing and having him to go home to is the best feeling.I bet he never let's you down though. Loyal to the end.
I bet your daughter misses him.
My step son would love him.
Animals are amazing.No he hasn’t he has been amazing and having him to go home to is the best feeling.
Yeah I bet she does deep down she grew up with him but ex discarded him as if he was nothing
They really are. Unconditional love and I am so so lucky to have him.Animals are amazing.
They'd never do anything malicious to emotionally harm others.
It's very concerning that these people running the theraplay are dealing with your ex - they should be reporting back to a professional. I'm really sorry you're being subjected to your child being used as a weapon. So have you signed anything or signed up to the theraplay or is it something SW has just organised? Because this needs to be formal - ie you need to have someone to write to about the sessions and what you would like them to do to help manage the situation. It sounds shambolic.
Thanx Dirge.Sad to hear the shocking situation that you've had to deal with today DB. I can't imagine how I would cope with my daughter being so hostile. The theraplay staff sound a disgraceful and unprofessional shower. Hope that lovely dog of yours is giving you some comfort tonight. Hang tough.
I’m sorry to hear that Jon.im worried the same will happen to me. wife took my daughter away 3 weeks ago and left me. have had limited contact since then. . lawyer says to wait until family court hearing but its killing me not seeing my daughter as we had a great relationship
what i dont understand is why it is considered inappropriate to collect your kid from school before any court has ruled on it, so the mother gets to have the child all the time whilst i have to wait and wait.I’m sorry to hear that Jon.
Sadly this is the norm for a lot of women when they leave they just withhold the kids for no reason.
The best way to try and advise is to find a bit more about your situation.
1. How old is your little girl?
2. Did you do a lot the care etc at home?
3. Have you put in a c100? It sounds like you have?
But yes sadly we do have to wait until the process starts etc and jump through hoops to get back what we should have as a standard.
Best way forward is to be calm polite and completely child focused don’t rise to anything ex may say or throw at you and just stay consistent which I’m sure you are. Also if you feel the need to rant do it on here keep that side well away from ex so she has nothing to throw at you on court.
One thing I got told on here which is a great piece of advice is “it’s short term pain for the long term gain”
Yes we should have to go to these lengths just to get some time with our kids but the system is still light years away from being fair to fathers so we just have to play the game.
There is so many people on here who can and will offer advice and support throughout this horrible journey whilst non of us know each other personally I can say that these guys and girls on here are some of the nicest most genuine people I’ve ever met and I’m sure I speak for many that this forum has helped and saved many of us.
Stay strong things will get better.
yes we put in an urgent c100 asking for a hearing in a week but that was over a week agowhat i dont understand is why it is considered inappropriate to collect your kid from school before any court has ruled on it, so the mother gets to have the child all the time whilst i have to wait and wait.
Great advice whoever said this! It's torture what we are being made to go through, but our focus needs to stay on the long term.One thing I got told on here which is a great piece of advice is “it’s short term pain for the long term gain”
Hi mate.Great advice whoever said this! It's torture what we are being made to go through, but our focus needs to stay on the long term.
Positivity Positivity Positivity
Love your dog DB he'll know exactly how you're feeling too, they're so intuitive.
I've been away for a few days and haven't been on here, hope you're ok, sorry to hear about the last theraplay, sounds like it isn't an official thing that the court ordered then?
Just keep fighting, whatever they say, it looks amazing that you keep showing up for your daughter.Hi mate.
Thank you he’s a little star and also a little shit but having him is the best thing and he’s the most loving dog.
It is what it is mate I expect it now sadly but I’ll keep going. No wasn’t court order all organised by sw but clearly wasn’t organised for my benefit other than to make out it’s my parenting. I’ve had the report from sw for court and it’s shocking but again not unexpected. Me and ash are coming up with a powerful position statement so I’m going into court on the 20th as positive as I can be
You know me I will never give up no matter the personal cost because she’s worth every second of what I have to go through. Yes I shouldn’t have to but I will and she will always know that her dad never gave up.Just keep fighting, whatever they say, it looks amazing that you keep showing up for your daughter.
Any chance of going for a dog walk with your daughter? Would your ex go for that? Just an idea, could be a proper good way of changing things and bonding. If not now, in time.
He might be a massive help in bringing you're daughter round mate.