I think, as this is for mediation rather than a court application, I'd have something like this on paper - but in a parenting plan format so it looks more "holistic". Have a look at the parenting plan template on the home page. It's a good one and can include all kinds of things, not just the times. It's a format to work with at mediation.
Time with Dad
up to and until weekend of 23rd/24th of July 2022, time to continue as now:
Sunday 9am - 5pm (19th of June)
Saturday 9am - Sunday 9am - (25th /26th of June)
Alternating
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from weekend of 23rd/24th of July to Saturday the 21st /22nd of January (Sons 2nd birthday on the 21st)
Saturday 9am - Sunday 9am (23rd /24th of June)
Sunday 9am - Monday 8pm- Drop off at nursery (31st/1st of August )
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from weekend of 27th /29th of January 2023- Son will be 2 years old
Commencing 27th January - every other week-nd
Friday 5pm - Monday 8am drop off at nursery plus a midweek night on Thursday night following 5pm to 8am Friday and a midweek night the following Monday 5pm to 8am drop off at nursery.
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Holidays:
From son's 2nd birthday 2 x 1 week periods of holiday each year plus shared time at Christmas each year and son's birthday to be shared each year.
The parenting plan download is on this link. You can edit it to add or remove headings or change the wording to suit what you want the headings to say - it starts off with the proposed times to spend with each parent, and includes things like who pays for what, agreements over new partners, all kinds of things. There may be some things for discussion in there that would reassure her to agree to the times. But it's up to you - if you'd rather just have a piece of paper with proposed times on to go to mediation, that's ok too.
Whatever it is it needs to be a document that can be passed back and forth and things written on it.
Time with Dad
up to and until weekend of 23rd/24th of July 2022, time to continue as now:
Sunday 9am - 5pm (19th of June)
Saturday 9am - Sunday 9am - (25th /26th of June)
Alternating
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from weekend of 23rd/24th of July to Saturday the 21st /22nd of January (Sons 2nd birthday on the 21st)
Saturday 9am - Sunday 9am (23rd /24th of June)
Sunday 9am - Monday 8pm- Drop off at nursery (31st/1st of August )
________________________________________________
from weekend of 27th /29th of January 2023- Son will be 2 years old
Commencing 27th January - every other week-nd
Friday 5pm - Monday 8am drop off at nursery plus a midweek night on Thursday night following 5pm to 8am Friday and a midweek night the following Monday 5pm to 8am drop off at nursery.
________________________________________________
Holidays:
From son's 2nd birthday 2 x 1 week periods of holiday each year plus shared time at Christmas each year and son's birthday to be shared each year.
The parenting plan download is on this link. You can edit it to add or remove headings or change the wording to suit what you want the headings to say - it starts off with the proposed times to spend with each parent, and includes things like who pays for what, agreements over new partners, all kinds of things. There may be some things for discussion in there that would reassure her to agree to the times. But it's up to you - if you'd rather just have a piece of paper with proposed times on to go to mediation, that's ok too.
Whatever it is it needs to be a document that can be passed back and forth and things written on it.
Parenting plans for separating parents
Parenting plan for single and separated Dads applying to court for shared parenting.
www.dadswithkids.co.uk