Hi all hope you’re all well.
Really Need some good advice asap.
My baby is 4 months old, I was never with the mother but we have been civil since he was born, im seeing him for overnights every week now and I love him to pieces, he’s my world.
tonight I dropped him off as normal and then about 5 mins later got a text saying “just to let you know I’m with someone now”
My heart sunk and I feel floored, I am not interested In her in the slightest and expected this at some point but not when he’s 4 months old.
The thought of another man spending more time with my boy is killing me, the thought of my son thinking this guy is his dad, the thought this man is likely to be there for his 1st words, 1st steps etc. I just dont know how to process this info, I feel like I’ve lost my son.
she said it’s been going on a long time so I should be reassured that we have bonded and not to worry but I can’t help it
Really Need some good advice asap.
My baby is 4 months old, I was never with the mother but we have been civil since he was born, im seeing him for overnights every week now and I love him to pieces, he’s my world.
tonight I dropped him off as normal and then about 5 mins later got a text saying “just to let you know I’m with someone now”
My heart sunk and I feel floored, I am not interested In her in the slightest and expected this at some point but not when he’s 4 months old.
The thought of another man spending more time with my boy is killing me, the thought of my son thinking this guy is his dad, the thought this man is likely to be there for his 1st words, 1st steps etc. I just dont know how to process this info, I feel like I’ve lost my son.
she said it’s been going on a long time so I should be reassured that we have bonded and not to worry but I can’t help it