Hi everyone, I've recently fallen into the worm hole of splitting up with me wife, so got several questions, which I'll post in separate threads to try to keep things concise.
I moved out of the family home back in January. My wife had made it clear just how ruthless, amoral and despicable she could be to get what she wanted. I had to leave to protect myself from the very real possibility of false accusations. I had the sense to get her to agree to an informal child access arrangement before I moved out but naively I did not realise the importance of 50/50 time. My wife was clearly more clued up on the legalities so I have my two young girls 3 nights a week. Don't get me wrong, I would love to have my girls full time if the wife had agreed, but disappointingly, my solicitor, despite discussing the issue with him, did not advise me to push for 50/50 time with my daughters. The poor performance of my solicitor is going to be the subject of other threads.
Anyway, I have been paying the mortgage on the family home, along with other expenses, but despite the fact my wife earns about the same as me, she has now got the CMS onto me. Got the first contact letter from them on Friday, giving me 14 days to contact them. Not done that yet, but anyone got any advice before I speak to them?
Eg. wife has elected for direct pay service, so do I have to give them my bank details? Do I have to declare any income from savings etc. or is the payment they dictate purely derived from my PAYE earnings, as on last year's hmrc figures?
Having read one or two of the horror stories about CMS on this forum already, I don't want to dig myself into any holes due to my ignorance.
I moved out of the family home back in January. My wife had made it clear just how ruthless, amoral and despicable she could be to get what she wanted. I had to leave to protect myself from the very real possibility of false accusations. I had the sense to get her to agree to an informal child access arrangement before I moved out but naively I did not realise the importance of 50/50 time. My wife was clearly more clued up on the legalities so I have my two young girls 3 nights a week. Don't get me wrong, I would love to have my girls full time if the wife had agreed, but disappointingly, my solicitor, despite discussing the issue with him, did not advise me to push for 50/50 time with my daughters. The poor performance of my solicitor is going to be the subject of other threads.
Anyway, I have been paying the mortgage on the family home, along with other expenses, but despite the fact my wife earns about the same as me, she has now got the CMS onto me. Got the first contact letter from them on Friday, giving me 14 days to contact them. Not done that yet, but anyone got any advice before I speak to them?
Eg. wife has elected for direct pay service, so do I have to give them my bank details? Do I have to declare any income from savings etc. or is the payment they dictate purely derived from my PAYE earnings, as on last year's hmrc figures?
Having read one or two of the horror stories about CMS on this forum already, I don't want to dig myself into any holes due to my ignorance.