Ihave a final hearing due in about 2 months time. I have just spoken with the CAFCASS officer in charge of or case and he has advised me that he has been given the go ahead from his superiors to apply for a 16.4 order due to ex telling him that im being very unreasonable with her regarding our kids. Im not, i just wont agree to her demands and cant get a straight answer to anything i propose. I have booked a holiday that has been authorised by the court but now shes trying to add more conditions to the holiday, like wanting hotel booking details and demanding video calls with both kids every day that were away and still wont confirm that i can have there passports 28 days before travelling etc. Apparently shes "never off the phone" to CAFCASS claiming im being unreasonable. He told me that hes very concerned for the children being in the middle of this conflict so has decided to apply for 16.4. He tells me that this means the children will have their own solicitor and he will act as a guardian for them. In theory this sounds like a good thing but is it? He also says that they can ask for psychology reports to be done which is a good thing for me as my ex is narcissistic, although undiagnosed. I have researched narcissistic personality disorder for a long time now as she accused me of having it and i wanted to know if i did. Everything i read was as if it had been written about her specifically so im very confident that this is what she has, everything just made sense after researching. If anyone has any experience or thoughts on this i would be grateful for any feedback. Did it help your case or hinder it? Thanks