Passport/GP records

[bbl]

Hello all,

I wanted some advise please. I'm ex is stopping me from accessing my GP even though this in the court order she is not releasing the details so I do not even know where it is, Is there anyone in the NHS I can speak to regarding this please? Also she has requested my son's passport details, I am not sure why she asked this and it concerns me that she will attempt to ring the airport office and attempt to say something to stop me and my son going on holiday, I have booked one for July, any advise

 

[bbl]

*my son's gp

 

[nothernsoul]

Do you have parental responsibility?

If so, you go into the GPs and ask them for a form that you fill out so your son can be added to your profile on the NHS app.

The process takes about 3 weeks but you will then have access to all of your son's records with detailed notes on each visit.

 

[bbl]

I don't know where his GP is as she has refused to tell me

 

[bbl]

Yes I do have parental responsibility and it is required for her to tell in the court order

 

[nothernsoul]

Ah mate it all sounds so familiar.

I had this issue with the dentists.

Asked several times. Twice via solicitors.

No response.

 

[Ash]

You can find out the GP. There will only be a few in her catchment area. There's an introductory letter template in resources on here, which can be adapted. Send it to every GP practice in her catchment area One of them will reply Others may send it back with NOP on it (not our patient).

 

[bbl]

Thank you, can I also ask your advise In regard to her request for my son's passport details, I do not want to give her them as I don't trust what she plans to do and why she wants them?

 

[Ash]

I'll have to let someone else answer that. I have no brain right now (have a flu bug).

 

[Anon3000]

Thank you, can I also ask your advise In regard to her request for my son's passport details, I do not want to give her them as I don't trust what she plans to do and why she wants them?

Is it in a court order that you have to supply them?

If not, i would ask why she wants them. If you are afraid she's going to ruin your holiday, you could always ask for written confirmation that she has given permission for you to take your child away?

 

[bbl]

Is it in a court order that you have to supply them?

If not, i would ask why she wants them. If you are afraid she's going to ruin your holiday, you could always ask for written confirmation that she has given permission for you to take your child away?

 

[bbl]

It's not in the court order and she will definitely not give me written confirmation to take my child away, I have just ignored the question at this point because I don't trust her at all

 

[bbl]

I wonder if it is worth discussing this with the airport?

 

[Anon3000]

I don’t think I’d be ringing the airline. Just ignore her, if there’s no court order and she won’t tell you what she wants it for, there’s no need to tell her.

 

[bbl]

Thank you very much, could I also ask now that I have equal shared care. The child maintenance service is still charging me to pay monthly as mum receives child benefit, however I have my son equal or more than she does. Has anyone come across this issue and offer any advise

 

[MagicJ]

Thank you very much, could I also ask now that I have equal shared care. The child maintenance service is still charging me to pay monthly as mum receives child benefit, however I have my son equal or more than she does. Has anyone come across this issue and offer any advise

Hey @bbl , I am likely to be in a similar boat but as I am still in court on finances have not yet had to cross this bridge.

When I ran the CMS calculator showing equal shared care, it still throws up a fair amount of CMS to be paid.

From what I have seen across the forum from others, it will take a lot of patient a d polite chasing of the CMS to get this sorted out.

I think there is a post or article with a senior service lead on the last consultation around CMS, 2022/2023 where it was noted that CMS should be instructed to NOT TAKE AS DEFAULT a payment responsibility based on Benefits reciept by one parent and actually look at the court order.

 

[bbl]

Well I have reported changes again and if it comes to the same decision I will appeal again. Would you recommend writing this in a letter format or informing them over the phone, I have informed them verbally to be fair informing them again and uploading the court order so we will see. But the advisor recommended I continue paying or I will end up in arrears, would yourselves recommend I continue to make payments?