Issue 1, Ok, Have an interim order, which allows 1 overnight with me. At sons home (he is 4 yrs old, turns 5 in Sept) Son sleeps in bed with mother. Also wears a nappy, so no accidents and pee`s on mother or her bed. First night son came to stay with me 14 weeks ago, He was put into his bed in his bedroom, woke up in the middle of the night, came into mine and my partners bedroom, crying, woke us both up, and he got into bed next to me on the end. Mother found out and hit the roof, She does not want son to sleep in my bed with my partner. So now I have to sleep in a single bed with him, whist mam does nothing to encourage to help by doing same, getting into his bed. This is on social services report also court is aware of this situation. Social services seem to be her side with this. However I am of the opinion that what he does in my care is my choice, so if i want to keep it the same as mam, I can. It disturbs my sleep, also his. Is this controlling ?
Issue 2 , Asked this before on here, Mam told me, not asked, that on a day I have son , that he was going to a caravan for the weekend. Mams family are unlikely to say who with as that's who they are, none of my business attitude . So I drove round looking for some clues of who he could have gone with, he is my son obviously his welfare is my concern, my instinct was right , he did not go with someone with responsibility, he went with his half sister and her boyfriend, I mentioned this to SS, who then twisted my words, and put into the last court hearing report that it was controlling behaviour. This was read out by the judge, as you can imagine this annoyed me, as it was for his welfare, and to put my mind at rest, Had i known beforehand who my son was going with , his half sister, i would have had my doubts.
Issue 2 , Asked this before on here, Mam told me, not asked, that on a day I have son , that he was going to a caravan for the weekend. Mams family are unlikely to say who with as that's who they are, none of my business attitude . So I drove round looking for some clues of who he could have gone with, he is my son obviously his welfare is my concern, my instinct was right , he did not go with someone with responsibility, he went with his half sister and her boyfriend, I mentioned this to SS, who then twisted my words, and put into the last court hearing report that it was controlling behaviour. This was read out by the judge, as you can imagine this annoyed me, as it was for his welfare, and to put my mind at rest, Had i known beforehand who my son was going with , his half sister, i would have had my doubts.