Hi,
My ex is keeping my child away from me and at first she claimed it was because of TRUST.
After I told her I am suffering badly with mental health and not in a good place...… she then has changed her withholding my child because "I am not safe to look after a child in my current mental health state"
What right person, after being forced homeless living rough for a few nights.... removed access to everything I've built for 15 years would not be suffering from mental health issues? I am seeking help from my GP and Therapy, both I am sure will provide letters if asked that I am capable to looking after my child.
I stable enough to look after my child. And up until the breakup was looking after 2 days a week in our home as i always have, there are 0 safeguarding concerns - although I am sure she will defend this.
A solicitor wanted to charge a large amount of money, could i draft a letter myself and send it recorded delivery ? along the lines of this what I have just drafted on Chat GTP.
Or would this be a waste of time? I am abouts to process the mediation forms.
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, Postcode]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Ex-Partner's Name]
[Ex-Partner's Address]
[City, Postcode]
Dear [Ex-Partner's Name],
I hope this letter finds you well. I am writing to you with the utmost sincerity and concern for the well-being of our daughter, *CHILD* .
First and foremost, I want to reaffirm my unwavering commitment to being fully involved in *CHILD* upbringing. It is my sincere belief that both of us, as her parents, play equally important roles in shaping her future and providing her with the love, care, and support she needs to thrive.
I am deeply troubled by the recent claims you have made regarding my mental health. As you know, the breakup between ourselves has caused me to suffer from poor mental health, a situation which I have not taken lightly. However, I want to assure you that I have sought help from mental health professionals, who have provided me with the necessary support and guidance to address these challenges. I have attached a letter from these professionals confirming that I pose no risk to our child, *CHILD* .
Any insinuation that my mental health poses a threat to *CHILD* or yourself is not only inaccurate but also deeply hurtful. It is my firm belief that such allegations are malicious and serve only to create unnecessary conflict and distress.
I understand that co-parenting can be challenging, especially when emotions are running high. However, I am committed to finding constructive and amicable solutions for the sake of *CHILD* well-being. Open and honest communication between us is paramount, and I am fully prepared to engage in dialogue to address any concerns you may have in a respectful and productive manner.
My primary concern, above all else, is *CHILD* happiness, safety, and best interests. I firmly believe that maintaining a loving and supportive relationship with both of her parents is crucial for her healthy development. As such, I am dedicated to working together with you to ensure that *CHILD* receives the care and nurturing she deserves from both of us.
I sincerely hope that we can set aside any differences and focus on what truly matters: providing *CHILD* with a stable, nurturing, and loving environment in which she can thrive. I am fully committed to playing my part in achieving this goal and am hopeful that we can move forward collaboratively for the sake of our daughter.
Please do not hesitate to reach out to me if you would like to discuss this matter further or if there are any concerns you would like to address. I am here to listen, cooperate, and work towards the best possible outcome for *CHILD* .
Thank you for your attention to this matter, and I look forward to your response.
Warm regards,
[Your Name]
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Thanks,
My ex is keeping my child away from me and at first she claimed it was because of TRUST.
After I told her I am suffering badly with mental health and not in a good place...… she then has changed her withholding my child because "I am not safe to look after a child in my current mental health state"
What right person, after being forced homeless living rough for a few nights.... removed access to everything I've built for 15 years would not be suffering from mental health issues? I am seeking help from my GP and Therapy, both I am sure will provide letters if asked that I am capable to looking after my child.
I stable enough to look after my child. And up until the breakup was looking after 2 days a week in our home as i always have, there are 0 safeguarding concerns - although I am sure she will defend this.
A solicitor wanted to charge a large amount of money, could i draft a letter myself and send it recorded delivery ? along the lines of this what I have just drafted on Chat GTP.
Or would this be a waste of time? I am abouts to process the mediation forms.
---
[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, Postcode]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Ex-Partner's Name]
[Ex-Partner's Address]
[City, Postcode]
Dear [Ex-Partner's Name],
I hope this letter finds you well. I am writing to you with the utmost sincerity and concern for the well-being of our daughter, *CHILD* .
First and foremost, I want to reaffirm my unwavering commitment to being fully involved in *CHILD* upbringing. It is my sincere belief that both of us, as her parents, play equally important roles in shaping her future and providing her with the love, care, and support she needs to thrive.
I am deeply troubled by the recent claims you have made regarding my mental health. As you know, the breakup between ourselves has caused me to suffer from poor mental health, a situation which I have not taken lightly. However, I want to assure you that I have sought help from mental health professionals, who have provided me with the necessary support and guidance to address these challenges. I have attached a letter from these professionals confirming that I pose no risk to our child, *CHILD* .
Any insinuation that my mental health poses a threat to *CHILD* or yourself is not only inaccurate but also deeply hurtful. It is my firm belief that such allegations are malicious and serve only to create unnecessary conflict and distress.
I understand that co-parenting can be challenging, especially when emotions are running high. However, I am committed to finding constructive and amicable solutions for the sake of *CHILD* well-being. Open and honest communication between us is paramount, and I am fully prepared to engage in dialogue to address any concerns you may have in a respectful and productive manner.
My primary concern, above all else, is *CHILD* happiness, safety, and best interests. I firmly believe that maintaining a loving and supportive relationship with both of her parents is crucial for her healthy development. As such, I am dedicated to working together with you to ensure that *CHILD* receives the care and nurturing she deserves from both of us.
I sincerely hope that we can set aside any differences and focus on what truly matters: providing *CHILD* with a stable, nurturing, and loving environment in which she can thrive. I am fully committed to playing my part in achieving this goal and am hopeful that we can move forward collaboratively for the sake of our daughter.
Please do not hesitate to reach out to me if you would like to discuss this matter further or if there are any concerns you would like to address. I am here to listen, cooperate, and work towards the best possible outcome for *CHILD* .
Thank you for your attention to this matter, and I look forward to your response.
Warm regards,
[Your Name]
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Thanks,
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