Hello all, looking for advice/opinions on a recent conflict. Happy to hear all opinions, this will likely be going to court so interested to hear if anyone has had similar experiences and their outcomes.
I have an interim order where I have the kids from Sunday morning until the following Sunday evening. Been in place for about 4 years. In that time I’ve done all the drop off/pick ups. On the Sunday evenings (when they go back to ex) my current partner has done about 50% of the drop offs due to my shift work. Since the order has been in place I’ve asked to share the burden multiple times but this has always been refused. For reference we effectively live within 3 miles of each other.
Fast forward to this year and my partner and I recently welcomed a new baby. I email my ex saying she’ll need to pick up the kids from now on at mine (on fortnightly Sunday evenings). I’ll continue to pick them up on Sunday mornings from hers.
She still refused. I left it till the Sunday evening and she texts me asking where they are, I tell her they’re ready to go and available for her to collect.
Refusing the whole time, even though I told her they’re ready any time she is to collect. Eventually took the kids back on Tuesday morning (so 1.5 days later). I’m not looking to withhold contact and returned them when I felt rested enough.
Does anyone think a judge would look unfavourably on me, when I’ve made it clear that there’s no obstruction and she’s free to collect?
Would the focus be on ex, who has no reason whatsoever to not collect (other than it’s what I’ve done for years)?
Or will we both get a bollocking from the judge?
TIA
I have an interim order where I have the kids from Sunday morning until the following Sunday evening. Been in place for about 4 years. In that time I’ve done all the drop off/pick ups. On the Sunday evenings (when they go back to ex) my current partner has done about 50% of the drop offs due to my shift work. Since the order has been in place I’ve asked to share the burden multiple times but this has always been refused. For reference we effectively live within 3 miles of each other.
Fast forward to this year and my partner and I recently welcomed a new baby. I email my ex saying she’ll need to pick up the kids from now on at mine (on fortnightly Sunday evenings). I’ll continue to pick them up on Sunday mornings from hers.
She still refused. I left it till the Sunday evening and she texts me asking where they are, I tell her they’re ready to go and available for her to collect.
Refusing the whole time, even though I told her they’re ready any time she is to collect. Eventually took the kids back on Tuesday morning (so 1.5 days later). I’m not looking to withhold contact and returned them when I felt rested enough.
Does anyone think a judge would look unfavourably on me, when I’ve made it clear that there’s no obstruction and she’s free to collect?
Would the focus be on ex, who has no reason whatsoever to not collect (other than it’s what I’ve done for years)?
Or will we both get a bollocking from the judge?
TIA