Hello. I hope you can help me with my case. I have problem with my ex as she wants to cut my days with my son. He is 4 years old. Until now we shared care as I work 14 days per month so I can take care of my son. Now she wants to cut from 16 days to only 4 days and basically that 4 days is during 2 weekends. She do that without reason you saying that's no good to my son stay with me all that days. Probably she wants money and her new partner giver her some clues. I feel really bad as my son spend with me
more time that with her from when his born. I think she is unhappy and jealous because my son says that wants stay with me when she picking him in my house and that's very strange for me. Some times I think that something bad happening in my ex house. The other day by suprise we met in supermarket and my son when saw me just start cry and run to me and said that is going with me even close inside my car later saying I'm not going with my mum. I felt really sad and I know he suffer because he can't spend so many day like before she cut . We had that agreement verbal so i have nothing basically and she claim benefits so is basically primary career. My shift pattern in work is like this: 4 in 3 off, 3 in 2 off, 3 in 3 off, 4 in 7 off. I want to apply to court as she don't want change her mind. Next week I have chat with mediation because they told me I can't apply to court without. There is more to say but maybe in the next message. I really need your help. Do I have any chance to win 50/50 custody in court?? Or at least anything better than only 4 days a month?? I hope yes because I don't think to just give up and see my son like this and do what my ex says as is no good for my son.
more time that with her from when his born. I think she is unhappy and jealous because my son says that wants stay with me when she picking him in my house and that's very strange for me. Some times I think that something bad happening in my ex house. The other day by suprise we met in supermarket and my son when saw me just start cry and run to me and said that is going with me even close inside my car later saying I'm not going with my mum. I felt really sad and I know he suffer because he can't spend so many day like before she cut . We had that agreement verbal so i have nothing basically and she claim benefits so is basically primary career. My shift pattern in work is like this: 4 in 3 off, 3 in 2 off, 3 in 3 off, 4 in 7 off. I want to apply to court as she don't want change her mind. Next week I have chat with mediation because they told me I can't apply to court without. There is more to say but maybe in the next message. I really need your help. Do I have any chance to win 50/50 custody in court?? Or at least anything better than only 4 days a month?? I hope yes because I don't think to just give up and see my son like this and do what my ex says as is no good for my son.