Hi everyone. This is only my second post on here so bare with me. I'll be honest I've only used the site when I've needed help and nowhere else to turn. The advice I was given from my previous post helped massively with my ex partner and sorting out co-parenting arrangements. We have been through mediation and finally at this point things with co-parenting seem settled.
Unfortunately, there has been a knock on effect from my settled life with my daughter, and that is with my current relationship. I still have no court order in place, only an agreement with my ex for how much time my daughter will spend with each of us as parents. My ex is still very much adamant that my current partner will not be meeting my daughter. I am fearful that introducing them will result in my ex stopping contact, or restricting contact. There have previously been elements of parental alienation without me introducing my current partner to my daughter.
My current partner and I have a strained relationship because of the above. She wants to move forward our relationship, as I do. But I am really anxious because of the consequences.
I don't really know where to turn, or what the best course of action to take is. I'm currently living two separate lives and its taking its toll
I'm writing this hoping that anyone who has been through similar might have some advice to share.
Unfortunately, there has been a knock on effect from my settled life with my daughter, and that is with my current relationship. I still have no court order in place, only an agreement with my ex for how much time my daughter will spend with each of us as parents. My ex is still very much adamant that my current partner will not be meeting my daughter. I am fearful that introducing them will result in my ex stopping contact, or restricting contact. There have previously been elements of parental alienation without me introducing my current partner to my daughter.
My current partner and I have a strained relationship because of the above. She wants to move forward our relationship, as I do. But I am really anxious because of the consequences.
I don't really know where to turn, or what the best course of action to take is. I'm currently living two separate lives and its taking its toll
I'm writing this hoping that anyone who has been through similar might have some advice to share.