OK my heads about to blow.
Last took the ex back to court for access to see my daughter.
But
She still continues to control mine and my daughters relationship.
By this I mean
I'm not allowed to call my daughter and my daughter isn't allowed to call me.
In the past when calls have happened the mother is always there whispering telling my daughter what to say. If I ask what has my daughter been doing mother will step in start shouting stop asking what she has been doing.
My daughter is 11 it's ridiculous shes not a baby. Why is she doing this.
I've had some issues recently which I've had to discuss with the mother about my daughters clothing looking shabby and old.
The mother receive £700 a month chold maintenance. Mom looks a million dollars daughter looks disowned when she comes to me after school so as a father yes I questioned where is my money going.
This as you can imagine caused an uproar. Since then it's I'm emotionally abusing my daughter my daughter is scared of etc... no idea where all this has come from I know its lies because its what she does when confronted with certain things.
Daughter told me her inhalers are out of date so recently I've had to fight to see my daughters medical records the mom tried to stop that telling doctors I've no parental responsibility after a long battle I proved I do then accessed her records to find she hasn't taken my daughter for her asthma reviews 3 years.
There was even a broken finger that I was unaware of. Why make my daughter hide this when she sees me??
Parent alienation is going on so now after being told I'm this and that to my daughter from the mother I decided to not see my daughter and give her space and that I would call my daughter the following Wednesday to discuss going forward and if she wants to see me.
My daughter never answered and the mom text pretending to be my daughter saying this is your daughter there is nothing to discuss. My only problem is you work too much (new accusation)
I've not idea what to do. I'm 100% taking this back to court the mother needs to stop controlling mine and my daughters relationship I can be the father I want to be. Last time I saw my daughter she told me she didn't want to see me I asked why not she said I don't know.
I know parent alienation is happening.
What do I do?
I can't have a heart to heart with my daughter.
I know the mom is stopping this because the accusations the mom emailed are lies so I will find out by having this conversation.
Now this is the funny part I've been accused of being the worst dad by the mom and daughter is scared of me etc... but the mom wants to go away for 4 nights with her friends so all of a sudden I receive a text saying mom said you can pick me up on 22nd.
Isn't this messing with my daughters head?? Because this is messing with my head.
I'm the big bad wolf when the mother wants to drive a wedge between me and my daughter but then it's all yeah your dad is ok when the mom wants to go on her holiday for 4 nights for me to have her.
What do I do?
It's affecting out relationship
Last took the ex back to court for access to see my daughter.
But
She still continues to control mine and my daughters relationship.
By this I mean
I'm not allowed to call my daughter and my daughter isn't allowed to call me.
In the past when calls have happened the mother is always there whispering telling my daughter what to say. If I ask what has my daughter been doing mother will step in start shouting stop asking what she has been doing.
My daughter is 11 it's ridiculous shes not a baby. Why is she doing this.
I've had some issues recently which I've had to discuss with the mother about my daughters clothing looking shabby and old.
The mother receive £700 a month chold maintenance. Mom looks a million dollars daughter looks disowned when she comes to me after school so as a father yes I questioned where is my money going.
This as you can imagine caused an uproar. Since then it's I'm emotionally abusing my daughter my daughter is scared of etc... no idea where all this has come from I know its lies because its what she does when confronted with certain things.
Daughter told me her inhalers are out of date so recently I've had to fight to see my daughters medical records the mom tried to stop that telling doctors I've no parental responsibility after a long battle I proved I do then accessed her records to find she hasn't taken my daughter for her asthma reviews 3 years.
There was even a broken finger that I was unaware of. Why make my daughter hide this when she sees me??
Parent alienation is going on so now after being told I'm this and that to my daughter from the mother I decided to not see my daughter and give her space and that I would call my daughter the following Wednesday to discuss going forward and if she wants to see me.
My daughter never answered and the mom text pretending to be my daughter saying this is your daughter there is nothing to discuss. My only problem is you work too much (new accusation)
I've not idea what to do. I'm 100% taking this back to court the mother needs to stop controlling mine and my daughters relationship I can be the father I want to be. Last time I saw my daughter she told me she didn't want to see me I asked why not she said I don't know.
I know parent alienation is happening.
What do I do?
I can't have a heart to heart with my daughter.
I know the mom is stopping this because the accusations the mom emailed are lies so I will find out by having this conversation.
Now this is the funny part I've been accused of being the worst dad by the mom and daughter is scared of me etc... but the mom wants to go away for 4 nights with her friends so all of a sudden I receive a text saying mom said you can pick me up on 22nd.
Isn't this messing with my daughters head?? Because this is messing with my head.
I'm the big bad wolf when the mother wants to drive a wedge between me and my daughter but then it's all yeah your dad is ok when the mom wants to go on her holiday for 4 nights for me to have her.
What do I do?
It's affecting out relationship