I had what was suppose to be final hearing this was after interim contact from a so what favourable cafcass section 7 report. But what happened was because the Ex was still in a refuge for close to 2 years she had one of the workers write a letter supporting their position statement for the final hearing making a whole list of new allegations. Trying to stop my children having overnight stays at my house. Refuge had also made referrals to social services against me saying the usually allegations of neglect when the children came back from overnight stays.
Here the problem they consider staff at the refuges as professionals because they have done a course in Domestic Abuse. The letter had like throughout my case many false allegations against me. It was written against me under the name of charity.
My question is could I do a Subject access request of that charity? Has anyone ever been successful in making a genuine complaint about refuge or subject access request? If a refuge holds my personal details like phone number are they breaching any gdpr rules? They don't really need to hold my personal information but are passing on to social services to complain about me.
I know I will be told what the point focus on the children.
Here the problem it isn't right someone can make up lies and you can't challenge because you are told they are a professional. Leaving my case aside they will do this against other fathers until it is stopped. The person at the refuge was very unprofessional would use bad language in front of my children, encouraged the ex to be difficult with contact, encourage animosity between me to prolonging the case. The fact she was in there for 2 years was because they told her she would save money staying it a refuge. Sure enough they would get funding for her. Even though they are a charity there are ways to make money. Looking at the charity accounts available online the person paid themselves some good remunerations.
I am not into conspiracy theories, a bitter ex or after any revenge. I let it all go I don't have any animosity for the sake of the kids I took all the allegations and let it all go. I know the legal advice is don't make allegations even if true you want to come across as a co-parent focused on the children. But all these different dynamic affect what they real narrative is. My ex wanted uk residenancy, benefits, a house, the kids free legal aid help that. I appreciate Cafcass will turn a blind eye to it all because they see as children needs as the healthy co parenting leave aside the rest. I am fine with that but some of corruption by so called professionals is it just always going to be brushed under the carpet. I even think Cafcass knows about some of the issues with some refuges but have the standard line they are professionals.
Is there something in the system that can address these issues if not for me for the fathers who face similar issues.
Here the problem they consider staff at the refuges as professionals because they have done a course in Domestic Abuse. The letter had like throughout my case many false allegations against me. It was written against me under the name of charity.
My question is could I do a Subject access request of that charity? Has anyone ever been successful in making a genuine complaint about refuge or subject access request? If a refuge holds my personal details like phone number are they breaching any gdpr rules? They don't really need to hold my personal information but are passing on to social services to complain about me.
I know I will be told what the point focus on the children.
Here the problem it isn't right someone can make up lies and you can't challenge because you are told they are a professional. Leaving my case aside they will do this against other fathers until it is stopped. The person at the refuge was very unprofessional would use bad language in front of my children, encouraged the ex to be difficult with contact, encourage animosity between me to prolonging the case. The fact she was in there for 2 years was because they told her she would save money staying it a refuge. Sure enough they would get funding for her. Even though they are a charity there are ways to make money. Looking at the charity accounts available online the person paid themselves some good remunerations.
I am not into conspiracy theories, a bitter ex or after any revenge. I let it all go I don't have any animosity for the sake of the kids I took all the allegations and let it all go. I know the legal advice is don't make allegations even if true you want to come across as a co-parent focused on the children. But all these different dynamic affect what they real narrative is. My ex wanted uk residenancy, benefits, a house, the kids free legal aid help that. I appreciate Cafcass will turn a blind eye to it all because they see as children needs as the healthy co parenting leave aside the rest. I am fine with that but some of corruption by so called professionals is it just always going to be brushed under the carpet. I even think Cafcass knows about some of the issues with some refuges but have the standard line they are professionals.
Is there something in the system that can address these issues if not for me for the fathers who face similar issues.