My STBEW works 70% this was until recently to allow her to write a book (she got an £80k advance for) and to also look after our 3 year old.
3 year old went into full time nursery 3 months ago and book had to be postponed for 1 year because of the time divorce stuff takes up.
I have asked her to go back to 100% but she has refused. I believe this is to try to garner a greater than 50% split of financial assets.
She wants me to pay 65% of all mortgage and other joint bills now that we have started to uncouple our finances. We both live in the same house for now.
Her book advance got paid into her company and she doesn’t draw an income from it so she said that cannot be included as income when we submit financials to the mediator. I am aware I am entitled to my share of this.
Will she be entitled to more than 50% of the assets because she is “part time”. At 50% she will have enough for a 4 bed house as will I.
Oh I know she is working her normal job on these days off recently. I can’t prove it unless I see her emails or work calendar.
I have asked for her to go back to work full time as we don’t have enough to pay for oil for our heating and I will have to turn the boiler off in 3 weeks and have cold showers. Waiting her response but she could pay it from our savings account or her business account.
Can I tell her she is 50% liable for the mortgage even though we haven’t sorted the financial split or will that work against me and I need to suck up and pay 65% for the next few months?
3 year old went into full time nursery 3 months ago and book had to be postponed for 1 year because of the time divorce stuff takes up.
I have asked her to go back to 100% but she has refused. I believe this is to try to garner a greater than 50% split of financial assets.
She wants me to pay 65% of all mortgage and other joint bills now that we have started to uncouple our finances. We both live in the same house for now.
Her book advance got paid into her company and she doesn’t draw an income from it so she said that cannot be included as income when we submit financials to the mediator. I am aware I am entitled to my share of this.
Will she be entitled to more than 50% of the assets because she is “part time”. At 50% she will have enough for a 4 bed house as will I.
Oh I know she is working her normal job on these days off recently. I can’t prove it unless I see her emails or work calendar.
I have asked for her to go back to work full time as we don’t have enough to pay for oil for our heating and I will have to turn the boiler off in 3 weeks and have cold showers. Waiting her response but she could pay it from our savings account or her business account.
Can I tell her she is 50% liable for the mortgage even though we haven’t sorted the financial split or will that work against me and I need to suck up and pay 65% for the next few months?