Add your tips to other members here. My main one is:
Never say anything negative about the Ex! Especially to Cafcass. They are not interested in who is right or what she has done - what they want to see is that you are a good parent. And a good parent is supportive of a good relationship with the other parent. If your ex is negative about you (even making false allegations) then that will highlight her as hostile to being supportive of a relationship with the other parent. Which, at final hearing, can do you some favours. So don't despair.
The mantra is "I just want my child/children to enjoy happy loving relationships with both parents and both families".
Credit for that mantra - given to me - goes to many other Dads who negotiated the court system.
Never say anything negative about the Ex! Especially to Cafcass. They are not interested in who is right or what she has done - what they want to see is that you are a good parent. And a good parent is supportive of a good relationship with the other parent. If your ex is negative about you (even making false allegations) then that will highlight her as hostile to being supportive of a relationship with the other parent. Which, at final hearing, can do you some favours. So don't despair.
The mantra is "I just want my child/children to enjoy happy loving relationships with both parents and both families".
Credit for that mantra - given to me - goes to many other Dads who negotiated the court system.
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