Maybe I got that part wrong when he said costs, I assumed all of my costs.
She hasn't said anything to the kids because my youngest has been asking me constantly when she'll be coming to see me abroad. I've had to gently explain that it won't be this year and that daddy and mummy are having some help to arrange things for the future. She was so disappointed.
Advice I got from Ash - put in an application for an official court transcript of the final hearing.
Well done! I am happy for you and your children!