Hello folks
One thing written in the safeguarding letter from three weeks ago has brought me to an extremely low point. I have slowly picked away at it
School has reported to have witnessed
father’s controlling and aggressive behaviour which the child also noted that she feels
unsafe with Mr *********.
I have been waking throughout the night so upset that I am being labelled as aggressive towards my child and that the child says that they feel unsafe with me. It's now written in official documents that can be used by my partner in the future to say 'look your father was aggressive and controlling towards you'.
Finally today I sat down with the headteacher and safeguarding officer. They have stated that there has been no communication with CAFCAAS and that they have not reported aggression or controlling behaviour or child feeling unsafe to anybody. They were genuine and stated that any report made by the school would have to go through the headmistress. I recorded the convo. I feel hugely relieved but what kind of shenanigans is this.
Can anybody advise - do I write to CAFCAAS now requesting some explanation of the untruth and if so how to avoid alerting them to the fact that I have shared details of the safeguarding letter?
Or do I include a reference to this in the response to my wifes allegations that I am in the process of finalising now.
I want an apology and for this to be removed from the record and the Judge to be made aware. It's created a depth of depression that I haven't known before.
Any input will be appreciated.
One thing written in the safeguarding letter from three weeks ago has brought me to an extremely low point. I have slowly picked away at it
School has reported to have witnessed
father’s controlling and aggressive behaviour which the child also noted that she feels
unsafe with Mr *********.
I have been waking throughout the night so upset that I am being labelled as aggressive towards my child and that the child says that they feel unsafe with me. It's now written in official documents that can be used by my partner in the future to say 'look your father was aggressive and controlling towards you'.
Finally today I sat down with the headteacher and safeguarding officer. They have stated that there has been no communication with CAFCAAS and that they have not reported aggression or controlling behaviour or child feeling unsafe to anybody. They were genuine and stated that any report made by the school would have to go through the headmistress. I recorded the convo. I feel hugely relieved but what kind of shenanigans is this.
Can anybody advise - do I write to CAFCAAS now requesting some explanation of the untruth and if so how to avoid alerting them to the fact that I have shared details of the safeguarding letter?
Or do I include a reference to this in the response to my wifes allegations that I am in the process of finalising now.
I want an apology and for this to be removed from the record and the Judge to be made aware. It's created a depth of depression that I haven't known before.
Any input will be appreciated.