Hi,
Long and short of it.
like many others I was alienated form seeing my 2 children from ex partner-they grew up being led to believe that someone else was their Father.
I have been paying CSA/CMS since separation to the mother and have tried many times over the years to re connect with them-but my requests fell on deaf ears
I was recently contacted by Social Services to to inform me, that my eldest daughter was unfortunately, placed into care.
Since being informed of this, I have been in contact daily with my daughter, and with the support of Social Services, I am now in daily contact and also see my daughter twice a month.(would be more, but Geographically impossible)
The problem I am now facing is, that CMS are not taking into account the costs incurred for now having my daughter back in my life, for the Payment I make to the ex, for my other child. I have stated that I am going to be suffering financially if they do not amend the Payment Plan they have in place for my 1 child.
I have provided CMS with all the info etc and informed them of the 2 journeys a month to see her, entertainment costs, and a monthly Direct Debit to pay for my Daughters contact lenses all come at a cost, appx £400 a month, and therefore should be taken into consideration for my finances.
CMS have rejected every claim stating that my daughter is under care of the State and I do not have any financial responsibility for her at all.
Please advise, if you are able to.
Thankyou
Long and short of it.
like many others I was alienated form seeing my 2 children from ex partner-they grew up being led to believe that someone else was their Father.
I have been paying CSA/CMS since separation to the mother and have tried many times over the years to re connect with them-but my requests fell on deaf ears
I was recently contacted by Social Services to to inform me, that my eldest daughter was unfortunately, placed into care.
Since being informed of this, I have been in contact daily with my daughter, and with the support of Social Services, I am now in daily contact and also see my daughter twice a month.(would be more, but Geographically impossible)
The problem I am now facing is, that CMS are not taking into account the costs incurred for now having my daughter back in my life, for the Payment I make to the ex, for my other child. I have stated that I am going to be suffering financially if they do not amend the Payment Plan they have in place for my 1 child.
I have provided CMS with all the info etc and informed them of the 2 journeys a month to see her, entertainment costs, and a monthly Direct Debit to pay for my Daughters contact lenses all come at a cost, appx £400 a month, and therefore should be taken into consideration for my finances.
CMS have rejected every claim stating that my daughter is under care of the State and I do not have any financial responsibility for her at all.
Please advise, if you are able to.
Thankyou