Hi all.
So, through comments made to me by my 12yr old daughter the ex has a new person in her life. Good luck to him!
I specifically never interrogate, actively or passively, since imo this places a child firmly in the middle of matters. I always listen and make gentle contributions to the narrative being told.
The subject heading is asking whether there are any protocols, either formal or informal, that should be followed. The ex has revealed nothing to me but I am being told about "****" by my daughter.
If the position was reversed she would be full on interrogating my daughter and most likely coming down the tracks at me at a vast rate of knots too.
My daughter already regales to me how Mum is always busy and doesn't provide the attention and support levels that (SEN diagnosed) she needs, and I can only see this added distraction increasing the deficit, which in turn will further strengthen my daughter's wishes to spend more time with me. Of course, this will be twisted by the ex into PA by myself. Of that I know her only too well.
Any advice please?
Thanks, SS.
So, through comments made to me by my 12yr old daughter the ex has a new person in her life. Good luck to him!
I specifically never interrogate, actively or passively, since imo this places a child firmly in the middle of matters. I always listen and make gentle contributions to the narrative being told.
The subject heading is asking whether there are any protocols, either formal or informal, that should be followed. The ex has revealed nothing to me but I am being told about "****" by my daughter.
If the position was reversed she would be full on interrogating my daughter and most likely coming down the tracks at me at a vast rate of knots too.
My daughter already regales to me how Mum is always busy and doesn't provide the attention and support levels that (SEN diagnosed) she needs, and I can only see this added distraction increasing the deficit, which in turn will further strengthen my daughter's wishes to spend more time with me. Of course, this will be twisted by the ex into PA by myself. Of that I know her only too well.
Any advice please?
Thanks, SS.