Hoping someone can help? My ex fiance split up with me in December, whilst nearly 3 months pregnant. It was rocky for the remainder of December, whilst I tried to salvage the relationship, which didn't happen. And the beginning of January, things looked like they were turning around, however after I finished paying off a holiday that was booked for Feb, for her and her 2 boys, which we were all supposed to be going on, she told me she didn't want me to go. So I didn't, she went, came back, then again began making me out to be the worst person alive. Since then, I have not seen her, not spoken to her on the phone, and any messages I've sent have rarely gotten a reply of more than one word. I have been told during this time that I will be "put on a rota system once baby is here as I don't mind you seeing her once or twice a month". I've been told that I won't be put on her birth certificate as I can make make her life difficult. I've beenaccused of my home being unsafe for children, accused of having mental health problems, accused of being obsessed with her, accused of threatening her. None of this I have done. This all began when she realised I wanted 50/50 shared custody once she's old enough. We were best friends for 8 years before we got together, so I feel like I've lost everything here. She is not my priority, my daughter is and always will be. I was also told last week by her sister that for the first week once she is born I can to her house once a day for an hour, as apparently mother and baby and bonding time is more important. She is now due any day. Can anyone advise please on how I can go about getting 50/50?
Trying not to make this a long read, I can go into more details if anyone would like them. Thank you in advance for any and all help!
Trying not to make this a long read, I can go into more details if anyone would like them. Thank you in advance for any and all help!