Good Evening All,
I have 2 primary school kids. CAO is joint lives with, 6/14 + half holidays with me. About 3 weeks ago my ex took kids out of school to stop them from coming to me on days I am due to collect.
At the same time she filed a C100 with all the usual allegations.
We have a gatekeeping coming up in early June. I need to file and serve a PS in about a week.
Professionals are involved with the kids and have clearly stated there are no safeguarding concerns.
Kids school attendance has been appalling recently as Ex keeps kids off school to stop me from collecting as per order.
I plan to do a short position statement in response to her application.
Following that, I feel it is a good idea to do a C2 to be considered when the gatekeeping happens. Maybe for prohibited steps, enforcement, penal notice or urgent directions hearing. By the time I submit C2 application I will have evidence from services and school which will reflect badly on Ex.
A C2 application would let me get this into the mix.
I plan to do alcohol test results as well. I really want to accelerate things in any way I can as my ex is working on making kids reject me and tell stories about how terrible a Dad I am.
In an ideal world, I would like the gatekeeping hearing to reinstate current CAO, as entering long protracted proceedings equals child alienation. Ex knows this and I imagine that's her plan. Current CAO will be eroded if this takes 12-18 months to conclude.
How do you ask for enforcement and hedge all bets on that being outcome of gatekeeping, but also ask for urgent directions at the same time ?
Any ideas or tips would be a great help. I've never had a gatekeeping and do not know how best to influence.
Thanks in advance.
I have 2 primary school kids. CAO is joint lives with, 6/14 + half holidays with me. About 3 weeks ago my ex took kids out of school to stop them from coming to me on days I am due to collect.
At the same time she filed a C100 with all the usual allegations.
We have a gatekeeping coming up in early June. I need to file and serve a PS in about a week.
Professionals are involved with the kids and have clearly stated there are no safeguarding concerns.
Kids school attendance has been appalling recently as Ex keeps kids off school to stop me from collecting as per order.
I plan to do a short position statement in response to her application.
Following that, I feel it is a good idea to do a C2 to be considered when the gatekeeping happens. Maybe for prohibited steps, enforcement, penal notice or urgent directions hearing. By the time I submit C2 application I will have evidence from services and school which will reflect badly on Ex.
A C2 application would let me get this into the mix.
I plan to do alcohol test results as well. I really want to accelerate things in any way I can as my ex is working on making kids reject me and tell stories about how terrible a Dad I am.
In an ideal world, I would like the gatekeeping hearing to reinstate current CAO, as entering long protracted proceedings equals child alienation. Ex knows this and I imagine that's her plan. Current CAO will be eroded if this takes 12-18 months to conclude.
How do you ask for enforcement and hedge all bets on that being outcome of gatekeeping, but also ask for urgent directions at the same time ?
Any ideas or tips would be a great help. I've never had a gatekeeping and do not know how best to influence.
Thanks in advance.