So I'm one hearing away from a final hearing. Today I went to pick up my son directly from school for an overnight, but because my daughter did not attend nursery today my ex brought her over.
She was supposed to come with me, but the ex asked her if 'she wanted to come with her or daddy', and she said she wanted to stay with mum. I did not want to create a scene, or drive conflict and told her to stay with the mother instead and brought my son home for the overnight.
Due do my daughter's age, she's four, the mother is doing everything she can to drive a wedge between us...
I wonder if it will look bad in court that I did not try to bring my daughter with me.... Going forward all handovers will occur at school (this has been fine) but before the final order is implemented there might be another one or two these scenarios. I did email the mother politely and asked her not to do that again
She was supposed to come with me, but the ex asked her if 'she wanted to come with her or daddy', and she said she wanted to stay with mum. I did not want to create a scene, or drive conflict and told her to stay with the mother instead and brought my son home for the overnight.
Due do my daughter's age, she's four, the mother is doing everything she can to drive a wedge between us...
I wonder if it will look bad in court that I did not try to bring my daughter with me.... Going forward all handovers will occur at school (this has been fine) but before the final order is implemented there might be another one or two these scenarios. I did email the mother politely and asked her not to do that again